Well Lioness, I have heavy pluto in my natal, so I can be obsessive fairly easily..I can tell you as soon as we started talking to one another, via IM at work (we work together), he immediately started spilling out personal information to me about his recent break up with his childs mother, and I spilled the same about my divorce that is still in process. We both kind of stepped back and said "wow, we just spilled out guts to one another and we barely know one another..."
Also, a few days into talking we were talking about how comfortable we felt with one another, and how much we have in common.. He asked me if I believed in past lives because he feels like he may have known me in one (now, since he is a Cancer, this could have been a cheesey pick up line, but it felt genuine)...
THEN, he was was telling his "spiritual" friend how connected he felt to me, and how similiar we are to one another, and his friend suggested to him that we may be "twin flames"..
Now the guy in question here isn't into astrology or "new age" type stuff like this but knows that I am very spiritual and felt enough for me to discuss me with his friends so I geuss that is a good sign.
I absolutely can't get him out of my mind.
Even if we aren't "twin flames", or "soul mates" it definitely feels like we have met for a purpose..
I THINK/hope he feels the same..
How was your "obsession" level, being the planet person Lioness??